Saturday, January 30, 2010

Lesbians are the Best

How is the lesbian world out there? I am good. I am getting better and better. How are you all feeling about the state of the world out there for the LGBT community. I have good days and then not so good days about the political state of the world or the United States.
I have commented in the past that I'm always disappointed when couples break up that have been together for a long time. I guess through others, we hope to watch our future play out. Many are fine with relationships coming and going, but I guess I'm a big of romantic in the whole together ever after. That wouldn't have been good for me, because I was married to a man and had children, and I never would have been as happy with him as I am now with a woman. For whatever reason, I did not enter a relation with a woman back then. Again, I do believe we move along that continuum re: our sexuality. And I believe at 18 I was perhaps more in the center and did fall in love with a man and 3 wonderful children and for many years for me, it has been all about women for relationships.
I have found that I relate best to women, and have always sought the emotional intimacy and have always had many women friends because of the emotional sharing. I have also been interested in spirtuality and this too has been shared with my women friends.
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Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Lesbians after marriage.....

So I was delighted that Meredith Baxter Birney came out and is with her partner. I read more in People magazine the other day. A psychologist made a comment about it being more common for women to come out later in life as sexuality is not fixed in the brain, there can be flexibility in that process. I know for me, there has been a continuum, so to speak. Perhaps that explains those who know for sure that they are attracted to the same sex at the age of 12, while there are many who do not know until they are older. Is it conscious or unconscious. Is it merely circumstantial. I believe I will do a survey to this respect. I believe I have always been open and liberal about sexual preference and curious about homosexuality, but when I met my ex-husband in college, I was definitely attracted to him. But now, as an older women, I can appreciate good looking men, but have only been attracted to women.

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