Friday, October 30, 2015

Again, What is a Lesbian After Marriage

 Lesbian After Marriage

 What with the media, etc., the idea of Lesbians After Marriage has become a little more prominent and acceptable as a concept.  As the times change, the "stigma" or label of being a lesbian changes also.  Has anyone seen Frankie and Grace?  I love it because of the developing relationship between the 2 women, although they aren't the gay people in the show.  It is their 2 husbands, who have been friends for 40 years and now they are coming out.  Quite an interesting show.  So, 2 men vs. 2 women.
 But the media is making it more acceptable.  As we are exposed to more alternative
 lifestyle moments, they become more and more normal. 

Since I wrote my first blogpost, I feel like the world has changed and I have changed.  What do you think? 
I have been in a long-term relationship but unfortunately, I am no longer in one.  I miss the community of lesbian women.  Because I spent developing years living in a straight world, as most of my readers did, I lack the lesbian community that comes from those who played sports together, and went to school together.  I also am just enough older that it was less of a possibility. My friend is 10 years younger and played softball in college and after college and knows a large number of women because of that relationship.  In fact, I just went to a picnic of such a gathering of lesbians who have been friends for all those years.  How nice to have had that affirmation.