So, I hope you are enjoying your life. Are you out there taking chances, meeting people, moving outside the box? It does take some risks to make that transition from the straight life, married life, to that of a lesbian. Even in maintaining the same friendships, etc., there is some losses when women come out. That certainly varies per individual, from drastic losses to minimal losses. My losses have been minimal and my gains have been wonderful. But the life I had built before had been in a liberal arena, being a therapist and choosing people in my life that had open thinking and so fit nicely in with my new life.
I dated someone who chose to only be around gay people, apparently having a resentment toward straight people. This certainly narrowed her life and we had some serious disagreements around that. My life is full of people who are wonderful and exciting, and I do not care who they have sex with - I only care that they are not judgmental and close-minded.
Also, I have always been a "cliff jumper" in that I have taken risks that others cannot do, and I understand that. I have felt like I could "NOT" do some of those things and that is my calling, apparently.
Live in peace and joy - have fun.
Chris
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