coming out later????

This blog is for women and about women who come out later in life - women who are exploring their sexual orientation later in life, perhaps after marriage, children, etc. Whether it happens when they meet that special woman, or perhaps they just find themselves attracted to someone special and it does not go past that, but they then begin exploring what the heck is going on. Women need someone to talk to. I have a friend who drove 60 miles to find someone without risk. I myself found myself going to see gay singers alone and watching the crowd around me.
Soaking up the atmosphere, so to speak. I would love being in environments where there were gay people, but it was hard to find such opportunities.

I found I loved to go on the gay websites I knew about and eventually began the gay dating sites. I was older at this time, and my children were older at this time - no one knew, but I needed to be sure - I'm guessing that if we are exploring, we PROBABLY ARE. Otherwise, why would it be such a temptation - but perhaps that's just MY perspective - what is yours?
In peace,
Chris